1. Fake friends always come expect a person to come visit, call and see about them, but they don't want to give in the same effort. They think that's it okay not to give their effort to put back into the friendship at all, which drains a person out. Whenever a person stops seeing and calling them! Due to their blind eyes in what they are doing, they have the nerve enough to get mad and ask questions- why is that person not giving them calls and visiting! Too, Fake friends are never there whenever one needs them the most. This means they got themselves and other objectives on their minds.This also means they don't put any type of effort to see if you are okay, or if one is down.
2.Fake friends speak words to a person who they say is their friend - " This is my friend! I really like him or her ! This is my homeboy or home girl! That's my boy, or that's my girl! " They say such things to put up a front in the presence of other people, but their actions reveal something else. Truely, their actions reveal that they don't that person to be their friend!Also in the presence of other people, they will laugh and talk about you in your face. This is a sign these types of fake friends are not true! Too, fake friends always have a negative judgemental attitude! One cannot tell them about their dreams and ablities that they want to accomplish! They are so quick to laugh and criticicize a person in their presence in your face saying- " you can't do that! That's impossible!" They are always trying to talk a person out of their dreams. Sometimes, one makes their dream as a reality! They are the same people laughing and smiliing in your face saying - "That's my boy! That's my friend!He did it! He's talented!"
3. This is the one I cannot stand most of all. Fake friends always go tell other people's business,but they don't want others to tell their business. They always going around gossip to other peoples' secrets! However, one can tell that fake friend that, " you promise me that you won't tell a soul about this!" The common statement a fake friend or more will say that "I promise not to tell a soul, which you can tell me anything!" As soon as that fake friend gets out of that person's presence, he or she has told other people about their business. Those people who was told; they always say these things - " I heard this about you! Is it true!? That's what I heard about you! Did that happen to you!? Do you have this? Are you this?" This something that fake friends love to do! This shows that fake friend couldn't keep a promise.
4.Fake friends don't keep their word! They always leave another person in the dark about something! This means that they don't call to say that plans have changed, or they don't call to say something has happened! This can usually more than one day! A lot of them have the mindset -" I don't have to keep my word to others, but nobody will not do it to me!" When someone does the same thing to them. They want to get mad about it! I say this- one gets what he or she deserves!
I want to say this about fake friends! By any means that they tell any secrets or personal things about you to other people! However, they have abused your inner-circle, which means you have let them in about who you are! Forgive them, but if they want another chance, make them work and earn your trust ! Most likely, they will do it again. I want to talk about a true friend!
A true friend can be trusted with the deep things about yourself! A true friend won't tell your secrets and personal business to other people. That true friend always keeps their promise to keep your secrets and personal safe! That true friend never judges you in a negative when telling something deep about yourself. That true friend will always listen to what you have to say! Too, A true friend have a bond so strong with the other person, which they don't abuse their inner-circles with each other.
A true friend is always there whenver you need them the most during rough times! A true friend always make effort call you! A true friend always tend to see if you are okay! A true friend always shows that he or she cares about you! This is what one calls true sacrifice! True friends don't abuse the word sacrifice at all.
A true friend always want to be a blessing in their your life, which he or she is never looking to give him or her a hard time. A true friend always desire to be a true blessing, which he or she is always looking for ways to bless him or her. Too, that person is doing the same for him. A true friend always is excited when he or she sees you, which he or she enjoys your presence! True friends love to be a blessing to each other, not a burden to each other.
A true friend always believes in your dreams and talents ! A true friend always get excited when something good has happened in your life! A true friend always believes in you! A true friend always wants the best to happen in your life, not the worst! They will always lift you up, not bring you down!
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